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Update
Read more: UpdateUnfortunately, my poor mum is unable to continue writing this blog at present. She has deteriorated fast and is struggling to communicate verbally, let alone use a phone or laptop. She will be admitted to a hospice in the coming days and will likely be spending her remaining time there. Thank you for the messages…
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Cancer Fight 10 – Coming to terms
Read more: Cancer Fight 10 – Coming to termsSince the news on Wednesday, my mind has been awash with various thoughts. Mr A. and my son have been absolutely brilliant. They’ve told me whatever I decide they will respect my wishes. But it is hard thing to talk about. You want to say things and then you break down in tears. Your thoughts…
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Cancer Fight 9 – Time to get the bucket list written.
Read more: Cancer Fight 9 – Time to get the bucket list written.Fuck you Freddy! Yesterday, was not the day for good news… Deep down inside of me, I knew it wasn’t going to be good. All those doctors who I saw when in hospital, through their half-baked smiles, told me all I needed to know. But you pray and hope they are wrong, but something inside…
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Cancer Fight 8 – Roll on tomorrow!!!
Read more: Cancer Fight 8 – Roll on tomorrow!!!Tomorrow at 2.50pm or there abouts I will know my fate! I meet with the breast surgery team and find out my treatment plan hopefully. I am holding on to the fact that the appointment is with the breast surgery team, which means surgery and not just doom and gloom. Mr A. has been so…
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Cancer Fight 7 – Antibiotics…. make you better…
Read more: Cancer Fight 7 – Antibiotics…. make you better…I bloody wish they did! After my Friday afternoon trip to the Doctors and my little trip to Broadview Gardens… I started to feel quite ill again. There I was up night after night with this hacking cough that was now making me gasp for air. Mr A. has been brilliant… he’s got up, got…
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Cancer Fight 6 – Feeling robbed.
Read more: Cancer Fight 6 – Feeling robbed.First of all, I apologise for the profanity that might be in this post, but to put it bluntly, I’m totally pissed off… my mind is not in a good place at the moment. Freddy seems to be robbing me of everything. And I mean f**king everything. My mind is in turmoil at the moment……
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Cancer Fight 5 – To put it bluntly..
Read more: Cancer Fight 5 – To put it bluntly..What an effing week… Seriously, I couldn’t think anything could get worse… but Freddy decided not to play ball and did all he could to let me know he’s in for the fight as well. Well Monday came… biopsies done… and didn’t feel too bad. But Tuesday came I was finding breathing getting difficult. Getting…
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Changes are Good For You
Read more: Changes are Good For YouMy life changed on the 26th March 2023. It was the day I found out that I have Cancer… But instead of allowing Cancer to take over my life… my positive change, is that I am going to rule Cancer and not the other way around. My positive change is that I am going to…
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Cancer Fight 4 – Monday 10th April 2023
Read more: Cancer Fight 4 – Monday 10th April 2023My first week home, wasn’t too bad. I even managed to go to Great Dixter House and Gardens, albeit in a wheelchair, as I was having troubles, with breathing. And the following day, I did a little stroll to Hall Place in Bexley, to take some photographs. On Monday the 10th I went back to…
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Cancer Fight 3 – A week on Lister Ward
Read more: Cancer Fight 3 – A week on Lister WardOn Monday 27th I was transferred to Lister Ward at Medway Maritime Hospital.. how long for I didn’t know. But one thing I did know… I was still being pumped full of fluids, phosphates and God knows what else. It was a bay of four beds and the women on there were absolutely fantastic and…
Bacardi Girl
…On the loose with the Booze… And Fighting Cancer…
Bacardi Girl 